Tuesday, July 19, 2011

His love make good impressions

Day 9...Love makes good impressions
Today's Dare: Think of a specific way you'd like to greet your spouse today. Do it with a smile and with enthusiasm.  Then determine to change your greeting to reflect your love for them.
Its always nice to know that you have been missed or that your partner is happy to see you.  Whether its been eight minutes, eight hours or eight days since the last time you saw your significant other, its comforting to know that you have been on their mind while they were gone and the way you great them says a lot.

As a women there are a couple key things I look for in a greeting from someone I love:
  1. Their facial expression: What is the look on their face when they greet me?
  2. Their body language: What is the position of their body when they greet me?
  3. Their words: What do they say when they greet me?
  4. Their tone of voice: What does their tone of voice say about their attitude when they greet me?
They are all important but I think for me the most important points are their words and tone of voice.  A hug is great but a hug and a kind word is even better. Words like, "Its so great to see you." or "I've been looking forward to seeing you all day." or "I've missed you." or even as simple as "I love you."  Words are very important to women, find reasons to speak love into your relationships.  Speak love at odd times, don't just wait until you are alone.  Try it, you'd be surprised how far a kind word will go to mend past hurts.

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